Relatietherapeut gezocht (Engelstalig): 30 jaar getrouwd, communicatieproblemen, verschillende persoonlijkheden

Plaats: Monster/ Den Haag

Soort coaching: relatietherapie

Toelichting
Communicatieproblemen 30 jaar getrouwd. Spreken meestal Engels.
Gezondheid verzekering ONVZ topfit

We want an English therapist as we both are native English speakers. And for insurance purpose we need a psychologist registered with NIP or SKJ.

We are from South Africa and have been through a lot together We have moved countries twice - South Africa to USA and then to the Netherlands
We have a autistic child(18) and a transgender child (28) and both still living with us. Our middle child (26) are independent and doing very well.
We have very different personalities and have grown apart being unhappy for 12 years but staying together for the sake of the family. I want a divorce he wants to stay. He has been very emotionally neglectful, patronizing and dominating in our past and I fell out of love and telling him so after he pressured me for answers. This caused him a lot of pain. He has changed but his communication style is assertive, defensive and aggressive and mine is conflict avoiding. We can’t hear each other anymore we have big escalating fights over small things, he excludes me from big decisions and we basically live alone in the same house. Many problems but if we can communicate better maybe we can turn things around.

Deadline: Graag zo spoedig mogelijk